Happy Birthday Tita Lita!

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Thank you for everything Tita Lita! Yours was my home away from home in Chicago, and your sons were my brothers from another mother.  Maraming salamat po!

The following two photos were taken in the Rivera home in December 1991 when Joy and I visited for a week or so.

Photo: San Francisco, April 2010


 

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