4 Things You Can't Get Back

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4 Things You Can't Get Back

  • The stone after it's thrown.
  • The word after it's said.
  • The occasion after it's missed.
  • The time after it's gone.

Two of my favorite people.

Rest in peace, Ninong Oscar Ocampo. Please say 'hello' to Tess.

Photo taken at Dennis' 50th birthday party. June 27, 2015


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